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Early Exposure To Sex... Does It Cause Bad Habits... 🤔
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Early Exposure To Sex... Does It Cause Bad Habits... 🤔 Note : A F F is deleting words in the t.ext. Please be patient. I was on this sex site, late last night ; 'A F F' ... ever heard of it? I was reading a blog by 'smartasswoman'. Her post was titled - "CBT... " (cock, ball, t.orture). Fascinating stuff! But it got me thinking. Early exposure to sexual material, may have affected my behavior. I might have been under prepared. Am I a product of sex, at too early an age? I typed in, a search on the web. There it was. 'Psychology Today' , came out with an article, a few years ago, analysing the relationship between - early exposure to sexual content and its effects on men and women. Turns out... it's not good. Among the conclusions reached, were; (1) Early exposure to boys, of sexually explicit media led to a three times higher probability of engaging in sex and oral sex, within two years of exposure. ... twice as likely. (2) Both men and women would suffer from ; sex, love and relationship addictions. (3) Both men and women would develop a higher interest in kinky sex, humiliation and other deviant sexual behavior, including BDSM. (4) It also lead to shaping values, when it came to; attitudes, behavior and relationships. (Although... those attitudes weren't described.) I was 7 years old, when the boy across the street, pulled out a deck of playing cards; he'd borrowed, from his older brother. We never played ONE game, of 'Crazy Eights'. We did, spend hours and hours, admiring the colour pictures, on those cards. He managed to get his hands on an "adult" magazine, that year as well. There were no articles written in it. I learned, to appreciate the value of - 'close up' photography. And... if you recall (from my blog last week), my 'next door neighbour' (that eleven and a half year old girl) and I, managed to get into... uhmm.... some pretty serious exploration... of our bodies. I'm still in shock, that she could USE me, like that. Which brings me to my point. Looking back over my sexual life... there seems to have been a pattern, that has developed. A certain kinkiness, that has emerged, over the years. I don't know, if it's my early exposure, to all that sexual media and materials. Or was it due to my influential neighbours? Perhaps I'd be the same person, with the same kinks I have today ; in spite of their manipulative ways and t.hat deck of cards. I can only imagine (what with, the internet and porn sites), how much easier it is for today's youth - to get a head start on sex. I don't know where I'd be, if I had access to the web... back in the day. Omg! 😱 Perhaps that knowledge, should best be supervised, by a mature and well balanced adult. If they exist. Someone who knows better. Someone with a measured perspective. What do you think? I'm not sure, you should ask me. I ended up leaving comments on "smartasswoman's " blog. I wondered... if anyone there, was interested in 'sounding'. Google it... 😶 ........................................ So... Do you think early exposure to sexual content and media has affected your sexual appetite and personality: or what DID affect it? Talking about appetite... whatcha y'all got goin' on the menu for this long weekend? Note : A F F is deleting words in the t.ext. Please be patient. ..........................................  ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O |
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Well... I didn't think much about it, before I read that article. Perhaps it has. I mean... some of the ideas I've come up with (over the years), were straight out of a porn movie, I might have watched or story I might have read. I do think.... I always had a high degree of sexual interest. Movies and videos and books... just made me feel more normal about it. Yep... It was always in me. 🤔 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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... this weekend in Canada is not a holiday. We had a long weekend last weekend. But... I think I'll dig out the BBQ and grill some chicken. What do you think? 🐔🍗😊 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Good afternoon, and I don't think it causes bad habits I think people cause bad habits for the most part. Some people have a really good sex life and others not so much I personally think it just depends on the person. I hope you have a exciting day.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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My dad had a deck of those playing cards. I remember looking at them...more than once. I'm much less kinky than you so don't blame the queen of hearts. I think chicken on the grill sounds like a fabulous idea. No plans for the long US weekend as I'm still transportationally challenged. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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5/23/2019 1:13 pm |
i think i was between 12 and 14 before i was exposed to sex... does that mean i am normal? i think you are writing these blogs just to get ideas for dinner! well today i am thinking spaghetti, but being to lazy to make the meat sauce i think i will go to green spot. it is a old school dinner, i think one of the few left in montreal there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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I was a late bloomer when it comes to sex and I admit I have a few kinks. Personally, looking at some of the erotice stories here about first sex etc. I think part of it is just that some kids are more sensual/sexual naturally from an early age, exploring their own bodies and then interest in others. It likely extends into adulthood. Now the question I have about that paper is did they adjust for those who did self experiment on their bodies before other early sex? If not they made their findings invalid. Whether by design, naivety or general ineptitude. Kids are not born innocent, they are born curious. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well. 
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Hey Paul, .........Yeah, I had a shitty childhood, in retrospect I think that that had a lot more to do with my current way of life,......As far as exposure to explicit material young, I had a job at 13 that exposed me to pornography on a grand scale,........I lost my virginity at 14, so maybe there is something to it all,......... Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
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Good afternoon, and I don't think it causes bad habits I think people cause bad habits for the most part. Some people have a really good sex life and others not so much I personally think it just depends on the person. I hope you have a exciting day.. Some are just more different than others. Did you ever have a clue? Was it in you all the time? 🤔 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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My dad had a deck of those playing cards. I remember looking at them...more than once. I'm much less kinky than you so don't blame the queen of hearts. I think chicken on the grill sounds like a fabulous idea. No plans for the long US weekend as I'm still transportationally challenged. I wonder if you've ever been with someone... who could sway you... nudge you... a tick.... gently...🤔 That chicken sounds like a safe choice. Who doesn't like chicken? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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i think i was between 12 and 14 before i was exposed to sex... does that mean i am normal? i think you are writing these blogs just to get ideas for dinner! well today i am thinking spaghetti, but being to lazy to make the meat sauce i think i will go to green spot. it is a old school dinner, i think one of the few left in montreal I admitted that I was looking for dinner ideas.. lol.. 💡 So... are you a touch... off to the left or right? 😶 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Hey Paul, .........Yeah, I had a shitty childhood, in retrospect I think that that had a lot more to do with my current way of life,......As far as exposure to explicit material young, I had a job at 13 that exposed me to pornography on a grand scale,........I lost my virginity at 14, so maybe there is something to it all,......... Sinfully Yours, backpocket13 Yep. I get it. I think there's some truth to this. Chicken.... egg..? Thanks for stopping by. 🍗🍳🐔👍 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I was a late bloomer when it comes to sex and I admit I have a few kinks. Personally, looking at some of the erotice stories here about first sex etc. I think part of it is just that some kids are more sensual/sexual naturally from an early age, exploring their own bodies and then interest in others. It likely extends into adulthood. Now the question I have about that paper is did they adjust for those who did self experiment on their bodies before other early sex? If not they made their findings invalid. Whether by design, naivety or general ineptitude. Kids are not born innocent, they are born curious. I was reading that article and thought the same thing. A lot of holes, in their perspective.... no? 🤔 Then again... it's "Psychology Today." .. right? lol Yep... Hey... Nice to see you. Drop by any time. 👍 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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18 was good... But... Not for my daughter for fucks sake! 😭 lol Hmmmm... I'm a hypocrite right? Yeah... I don't know. I shouldn't have read that article, right? lol Oooo... is your recipe sharable? Visit me on my mail box. I love coleslaw... 😘❤️😁😍 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Well... those are some good points. I don't know. I am never bored. And regular sex is great. But just to trip things out a bit... I always look for that edge. Ya know what I mean? Obviously... I need a playful partner. But, I never put any preassure on my kinks. It happens or not. It's all good. I'm sure you'd, understand. It's all about communication. Isn't it? 😘👍Being gentle... understanding and feeling, where your lover is. Yes.. it's about the space you share.. and you have to respect that space. I'd push it... lol... 😁 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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5/23/2019 6:42 pm |
No way, it don't!
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True... sensual from an early stage. Or... more warped... from that stage. I was reading that article and thought the same thing. A lot of holes, in their perspective.... no? 🤔 Then again... it's "Psychology Today." .. right? lol Yep... Hey... Nice to see you. Drop by any time. 👍 I do know that being molested as a kid can have some weird effects on a person's sex life often not good. Discovered it from a partner I had. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well.
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5/23/2019 7:30 pm |
According to the psych magazine, I tend to follow it to a tee. Do I mind or care? not sure as there are changes I would have made earlier in life. I actually have that deck of cards, several art pin up cards and several actual porn cards...I collect cards but not just nude ones, some real nice one. My actual exposure to sexual material was not early in life but I do think it affected me...and again, I don't care. lol.
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No way, it don't! It's a psychology mag... with a PHD who wrote the article. Who knows? I was who I am... way back in the day. I think. You? 🤔 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I have chatted with some who claim they were masterbating from before grade school and went on to experimenting with more in grade school. Others, much later. I do know that being molested as a kid can have some weird effects on a person's sex life often not good. Discovered it from a partner I had. Well... I think... other factors should have been factored into the study for sure. It has to also be about your home life, standard of living, parental guidance. You know. The whole package. Thanks for sharing your pov. 👍 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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According to the psych magazine, I tend to follow it to a tee. Do I mind or care? not sure as there are changes I would have made earlier in life. I actually have that deck of cards, several art pin up cards and several actual porn cards...I collect cards but not just nude ones, some real nice one. My actual exposure to sexual material was not early in life but I do think it affected me...and again, I don't care. lol. Yeah... I don't care either. I think I would have drifted in the direction I did... regardless of the kid stuff I went through. Thanks for sharing your pov. Drop by any time. 👍 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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5/24/2019 3:44 am |
"So... are you a touch... off to the left or right?" i think right..but it may be left. it has been so long i don't think about it... as i did not see you blog tonight will be soire quebecois" hotdogs and beans with a side of fries there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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You a wild side? lol... 😁 Interesting story. Thanks for sharing. 😘 Love that pizza choice! 🍕👍 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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"So... are you a touch... off to the left or right?" i think right..but it may be left. it has been so long i don't think about it... as i did not see you blog tonight will be soire quebecois" hotdogs and beans with a side of fries ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I'll skip the sex= it's potato salad and cold grilled chicken. And I also mentioned sounding on smartass' post LOL Wonder if "we" are kinky (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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I'll skip the sex= it's potato salad and cold grilled chicken. And I also mentioned sounding on smartass' post LOL Wonder if "we" are kinky I asked, if it interested anyone ? 🤔 Does it? 😶 Hmmm.... smart replied. What else are you into? I'm a good listener. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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He peeked? Really? lol🍀 Lucky you.... I guess things worked out. 😊 Any other little stories? 🤔 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Thanks for the mention!  Personally I don't think that seeing a deck of naughty playing cards at a young age is enough to make someone kinky. Didn't almost all of us have some kind of exposure like that? I remember sneaking looks at my dad's Playboy magazines when my parents were out of the house. Despite that, I was very much of a late bloomer (probably mostly because I was nerdy). I did some catching up in my 20's, then went into a relationship that was VERY vanilla. It was only when I was a couple of years out of that relationship, almost 50, that I became interested in bdsm and started exploring that. But I know of other kinky people who claim they always knew they were, from a very young age. Like, they would get turned on by the cartoons where Snidely Whiplash ties up sweet Nell on on the railroad tracks.   
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I look forward to reading them... 👍📖 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Yeah... I took a self deprecating, facetious slant with my opinion on the influence of that deck of cards.... But heck, I still remeber them... lol 😱 That's quite a gap... to have waited till you were 50. Who knows if it would have been sooner, if you'd have had an opportunity. Perhaps that's what that Psychology Today article was all about - "exposure to...", and how we react to that exposure. Those cards didn't an affect me. I didn't have sex till I was 17... but there was that older girl, living next door. Now SHE was a bad influence on me... lol 😁 The more I learn about kink things, the more interested I become in them. But interest and doing something about it , are two different things. Aren't they? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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>>Interest and doing something about it are two different things. For sure. For some people, certain things will always stay in the realm of fantasy and they have no interest in enacting them in person. I can think of a couple porn categories that are like that for me  On the other hand, if you did want to take some baby steps toward action, I feel confident that if you created a profile on Fetlife you would find a ton of events and special interest groups in your vicinity.
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>>Interest and doing something about it are two different things. For sure. For some people, certain things will always stay in the realm of fantasy and they have no interest in enacting them in person. I can think of a couple porn categories that are like that for me On the other hand, if you did want to take some baby steps toward action, I feel confident that if you created a profile on Fetlife you would find a ton of events and special interest groups in your vicinity. Thanks for the tip. 👍 You can think of a couple? Well... you know me. I'd ask you what they were....? 🤔😶 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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