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THE POWER OF YOUR THOUGHTS  

Amys_Secret 32F
22 posts
7/21/2018 9:02 pm
THE POWER OF YOUR THOUGHTS

So if you’re fairly new in the personal development world, you might think that all of this stuff about shame is actually horrible news – because at any minute, something could happen to make you feel ashamed. A snide remark, a sarcastic laugh, a judgemental look. Not to mention public humiliation, losing your job, failing your degree or getting dumped.

But when you begin to understand that shame is a feeling caused by your thoughts, rather than your circumstances, a whole new world will open up. You guys know I talk about Brooke Castillo and her amazing podcast called The Life Coach School Podcast as though she’s paying me a hefty fee to promote it (I WISH!) but the reason I love her podcast so much is because she articulated this concept in a way that just CLICKED for me.

They might say it in different ways, but almost every leader in the personal development industry will tell you that our thoughts create our feelings which create our actions and our results. So Brooke wasn’t sharing anything particularly new to the industry or new to me. But the way that she explained it on her podcast was one of those light bulb moments for me so I will FOREVER be hooked on her work.

But anyway, what I’m trying to say is that the feeling of shame comes from your thoughts. Thoughts like ‘there’s something wrong with me’, ‘I’m not normal’, ‘I shouldn’t have done that’ or ‘No one likes me’. And the proof that shame comes from our thoughts (and not our circumstances) lies in the fact that two people can be in exactly the same situation, or have exactly the same thing happen to them, and both will have completely different feelings and reactions.


Friendlycuz1 53M

7/22/2018 7:47 am

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Amys_Secret 32F

7/23/2018 12:30 am

Awww. Thats sweet! Thank you!


PlzMePlzUMuch69 56M
4 posts
8/20/2018 5:02 pm

As a published writer myself, & as one who "Studies the Stars," I have noticed that MANY GREAT WRITERS were born under CANCER:

Partial List: Herman Hesse, John Steinbeck, Hemingway to name a few. And these weren't "barely-known" writers...ALL 3 were MAJOR WRITERS!!!

Our MOON is reflective...So are

"THE CHILDREN OF THE MOON" (like Dear AMY?)

"Smart & PRETTY" = NICE COMBO! ha!

(4 shore!)

xxx Dan


sexsexsex69sex3 56M
37 posts
9/8/2018 1:54 am

Hello my Dear friend!!!! Excellent what you wrote, I'm into this for about 2 years and a half, it is very interesting how your life can change if your thoughts are positive all the time. Thank you for sharing. Send you kisses and hope to see you again in my next visit to Florida


shortyforfun1973 50M
44 posts
9/15/2018 5:58 am

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136 posts
10/5/2018 5:24 pm

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Ihorne4u2 59M

11/25/2018 7:07 am

the comforting thing about shame and all is that it gets better as we grow older,,once we discover that YES I AM NORMAL then we start to move ahead and life comes to full bloom.
God bless and be safe


d0gdaize 67M
375 posts
12/22/2018 10:44 am

You are exactly right.... and yes you are pretty.


bobbino68 55M

2/20/2019 9:04 pm

Many years ago, I was into Tony Robbins, and that's where I first came across the idea that we are responsible for our own mood (and, to your point, shame, if that is what you are feeling). It ties into the whole idea of taking responsibility -- for example, if something isn't going your way, the easy thing to do is blame the situation, or other people. The productive thing to do is ask, what can I do to help or improve this situation? That is over-simplified, but I hope you get the idea


rdy4playtim 61M

3/11/2019 6:24 am

Nice to read something real. Impressive. I've done a good bit of personal development. Some on leadership and time management. But the most helpful has come from my yoga practice and meditation. Yoga has settled my mind and tuned my body.............and still going.

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3/23/2019 10:50 pm

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4/16/2019 7:20 pm

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1 post
6/30/2019 1:36 am

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lookingatplants 24M
2 posts
7/2/2019 9:46 pm

Zhu xi (a Chinese philosopher of whom I have only a little understanding) believed that your entire moral character (self worth, feelings, ect...) was fully developed inside you and that the purpose of experience was to bring it out and accept what’s inside you that cannot be changed. Not sure if it’s relevant but you reminded me of that thanks for the post well thought out!


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2 posts
7/2/2019 9:47 pm

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TempPass1954 59M
1 post
7/9/2019 2:47 pm

I like a lot of what you say. Thoughts and feelings. Sort of a chicken or egg kind of thing. They both come and go. Problem is, we're lost in them. Literally. We're so close to them that we're under the illusion that we are them. But you're we're a thought, we're not a feeling. We are the one who are aware of them. Thoughts and feelings come and go. But you're always been here. People don't wake up as someone else, right? Except maybe my ex-wife. Lol.
So here's something to think about, give yourself to me. And in addition to pleasure leading to an orgasm that will rock your beautiful body, I'll share the ways I've learned to be at peace with thought and emotion. When you have that, there's no need to change them, they'll change themselves. It helps to remember that nothing you can ever do or achieve, will ever be more than what you already have.


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1 post
10/20/2019 9:26 am

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1/20/2020 9:54 am

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justellmeonce 74M  
2 posts
3/3/2020 5:34 am

the power of our thoughts....i have always thought myself inferior to all other humans ...of course i've never shown that side of me ....its just the way i'm wired ...
the amazing fact is that i've learned to embrace those characteristics ...we're here for just a blink , be happy , be grateful , be humble ...
all i think about is a woman's magic triangle , the center of the universe ......
thats the thought that keeps me vital , young in spirit ....


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4/24/2020 5:43 pm

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