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so many fakes on this site and other sites as well. So we have to be careful. just keep on looking for honest people.
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Some would say, you had something on your mind, well you got rid of it tonight! The thought and questions you put forth are real not to you but to us guys also, maybe not as prevalent, as the ratio of men to women is very one sided.. I have no argument with your thoughts, People will be people and from day to day will act differently...One just has to develop some site smart( akin to street smart) I think you have it down pat from the experiences you have had here on these sites. I guess just keep an open mind, be patient but mindful of the real world here on the site. Things can work out for what ever connections you may find... Just be sure that you are respected as you should be.... Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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5/9/2019 6:47 pm |
so many fakes on this site and other sites as well. So we have to be careful. just keep on looking for honest people. anyone that does not take the same precautions online as they would in real life is a fool those that are fooled online are fooled just as easily in real life... You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time. Abraham Lincoln and he said that way before there was internet! there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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5/9/2019 7:21 pm |
"It never fails, we meet someone and feel a connection, or feel the 'chemistry' and immediately find ourselves being sucked into a whirlwind of emotions, hormonal responses and fantasies." online chats are the best place for misunderstandings "Have we been clear about what we are looking for, or have we held back? " i would say a soft description is a cloudy expression of our wants stemmy from our fear of being to harsh or misunderstood. had you been clear in your being here for the blogs, and that you do not meet people from this site... the male objections of women wanting LTR's should have never entered into the conversation. therefore it is a mute point. "Are we actually available to participate in meet-n-greets or regular get-togethers or are we just leading people on without having intent to ever meet?" seems funny as a women you blame men for not showing up, and if you read mens mens rants they are crying about women that do not show up. the other side of the coin... i have also read about one of the two showing up and parking where they could see the person they were supposed to meet. if they did not like the looks, or if the person did not match the picture, they assumed the person to be "a fake" and drove away. another reason would be that they lack confidence and chicken at the last moment. so there i agree with you. when i make plans to meet someone , i do so in a place within reason. i wait the the customary 15 min and place my order. finish my meal/coffee, leave and never think about them again. i do not block people, but i also do not give them a second thought. "Are we putting uncalled-for pressure on other people to communicate with us frequently?" only if it becomes and issue. sometime things change, and when they do there is a reason... and if you listen to yourself you can tell the reason. if you listen to your needs, you will make excuses of why it should work. i am not belittling your feelings, nor am i saying that you are overreacting. i believe a person's feelings are theirs to hold. i am just saying there is always more than one way to look at life. i am also thinking that there are other people that see this differently than the two of us thank you for considering my point, and i wish you the happiness you seek bonne vie there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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A nice read.....thanks for these thoughts to consider. I feel that just as we are all here for differing reasons , there are just as many reasons for lack of communications. We have to take em all in, as well as gauging our own emotions.....a huge undertaking indeed. Sometimes we will never know the reasonings.....and we must accept that. Such is life ~~
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5/10/2019 4:52 am |
I know, and it sucks
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5/10/2019 4:56 am |
Unfortunately this is the plain truth!!!!
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