Musings of a Friendly Couple
 
Sharing some of our thoughts along our journey in the lifestyle.
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Profile Introduction
Posted:Feb 9, 2019 7:35 am
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2019 3:17 am
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It seems that standard members can read our blog, while they cannot see our profile. Maybe we have that wrong, but that’s how it appears. So, we thought we’d share our profile introduction here.

Introduction:
We are a very friendly couple, who enjoys having a smart, sexy, and curious woman join us for erotic, sensual, and passionate experiences. The sound a woman makes, when sexually aroused, is sweet music to our ears! We enjoy close, intimate foreplay, as well as hot sex, with a focus on ensuring that our female partner truly enjoys her experience! We believe in treating women with the utmost respect and passion. Women have such a natural beauty!

If we were to say we had a preference, it would be to meet a woman with whom we can make a true connection, dare we say ... a friendship. To us, having a real connection with a woman intensifies any experience we may have with her. While we are not completely opposed to a sexy one-night-stand, we would much rather meet a woman with whom we can enjoy fun experiences, both inside and outside the bedroom, on a more regular basis.

Also, for those women who are only interested in talking, sharing experiences and fantasies, and engaging in some sexy chat without wanting to meet in-per, we are open to that as well. We love friendly people and good conversation, and since joining, we have also learned that we rather enjoy a fun, interactive, sexy chat. Don't be surprised, if we notice that you checked out our profile, or we read something on yours that is friendly or passionate in nature, that we send you a friendly greeting.

Outside the bedroom, we love movies and sports. We enjoy all genres of movies, but are partial to fantasy, sci-fi and horror movies. We like suspending our disbelief for a couple of hours. In a typical year, we will see roughly 40 movies in a movie theater. As for sports, we both enjoy hockey, baseball and football the most. Huge Cubs and Blackhawks fans here!!

Our ideal per:
Women:
We are very interested in meeting sweet, sexy, sensual women, who enjoy the gentle, erotic touch of a man and a woman at the same time. We love women who are aroused at the thought of having their erogenous zones explored and discovered, and with the two of us, more than one can be explored at a time!

Couples:
We're always open to friendly, stimulating conversation and making new friends. However, we are not swingers, so we're not looking for other couples for swapping or group play. We only play with women, and we only play together.

Men:
Sorry, gentlemen. We're not interested in men, but we do wish you the best of luck in finding what you're looking for on here.
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Sex Conventions
Posted:Mar 31, 2019 3:57 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2019 10:11 am
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With Exxxotica coming to town this coming weekend, we were wondering what people’s perspectives were on sex conventions.

We love going. This will be our 5th straight year attending Exxxotica. It’s fun to shop the vendors, talk to people in the lifestyle, and meet a few porn stars. One of these years, we hope to have a sexy lady accompany us, so that we can enjoy a passionate experience back at the hotel room after walking the showroom floor.

So what are your thoughts? Do you go to conventions? Do you enjoy your time there? Anyone else attending Exxxotica this next weekend?
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Public Flashing
Posted:Mar 18, 2019 8:51 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2019 6:08 am
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After a weekend that consisted of people communicating so poorly (with some exceptions), that it was almost painful, or people being genuinely rude and/or outright crazy toward us, we thought about writing a blog post about the lost art of communication. But, then we thought maybe we should write about something more upbeat. So, we'll save the communication post for a later date.

We love to give pleasure to another woman together! If you've read our profile, or any of our other blog posts, hopefully, we've made that readily apparent. Lol. With that said, however, one of the things we've learned about ourselves since joining here, is that we do find it to be very erotic to be teased by another woman. It all started with a woman from here, early on in our journey, who actually took the time to get to know us … our interests and our desires … and one day out of the blue, she started sending random photos and stories that represented some things that we find very arousing. It was extremely effective in putting us in a sensual mood, and of course, greatly appreciated as we discovered how enticing it was to be the object of another woman's flirting.

So, along the lines of being flirted with, one of the things that has never happened to us, but we fantasize about sometimes, is being publicly flashed by another woman. We envision being out and about, and observing a beautiful woman sitting down in a nice blouse and skirt. Unintentionally, or intentionally, she adjusts her position, and we catch a glimpse at just the right moment, noticing she is not wearing any panties. She makes eye contact with us, smiles in our direction knowing she gave us a peek, and comes to be pleasantly surprised that she receives a favorable smile from both the and female half of this female-friendly couple. Maybe its a fleeting, fun moment. Maybe it leads to some conversation. Maybe it leads to something more. Maybe this scenario plays out better in fantasy land than it does in reality. That's why we call it a fantasy.

Have you ever been the flasher? Have you ever been the flashee? What happened next?

Like we said earlier, being the object of a woman's flirting is something we've discovered to be really arousing. So, we're just curious if the flashing scenario ever plays out in real life, or if we only see it in the movies … Basic Instinct, anyone?

Have a wonderful day!
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Hide Feature?
Posted:Feb 9, 2019 7:54 am
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2019 5:17 am
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So, we understand that we are not every woman’s cup of tea. And, judging by the low number of replies we get to our messages, we are rarely a woman’s cup of tea. Lol.

That’s cool. We don’t judge, and we don’t try to force interest in us. We much prefer genuine interest. If a woman has no interest in us, then we simply move on. You will find that we are very rarely mean or derogatory. We almost said never, but that’s not true. A few of the more condescending comments we’ve received have pushed our buttons on occasion, and maybe we defended ourselves with a little sarcasm. Haha. It is rare, though, as we truly hope everyone finds what they’re looking for!

Anyway, back on topic. Since we are looking for mutual interest, a connection if you will, we have no problem wishing a woman well and moving along. Without interest or a connection, it simply won’t work for us or her, and that’s no fun for anyone. This is supposed to be fun and enjoyable, and “her” enjoyment is high on our list of priorities.

So we wondered what everyone’s thoughts were on a “hide” feature on the site ... an ability to hide profiles of those who are disinterested in, or will never talk to us? Having been here for awhile, we daily see a number of the same profiles of women who simply are not going to engage with us, whatever their reas may be. We think it would be nice to hide those profiles from our main page, so that we don’t have to sort through so many of them, and allow us to see more potential matches.
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Negative Profiles
Posted:Jan 12, 2019 9:02 am
Last Updated:Apr 2, 2019 3:39 am
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So, we’ll start this off with a rhetorical question ... Why??

So as not to come off as sounding hypocritical, we do understand the frustrations that come from some of the interactions here. Believe us ... we do! We also understand the need and desire to vent. In fact, it is not lost on us that we are venting right now! Lol.

What we don’t quite understand is just how negative some of the profiles, that we have read, have become.

In all honesty, the first impression many of us get of the other members here is their profile picture. It admittedly is what draws us to view the profile in the first place. But, the second impression comes from the profile introduction. And while the profile photo may be what brought us to a given profile, it is the introduction that will keep us there ... or ... cause us to move on.

When we see a bunch of negative or rude comments in profiles, our first thought is ... is this how the woman will behave if we’re lucky enough to get her attention and talk to her? And most of the time, it’s enough to simply make us move on to the next profile. We also don’t understand the derogatory comments we see about a group of people who don’t match one’s interests. Not into older people? That’s fine. But are the references to retirement homes necessary? Not into younger people? Also fine. But, how does it help to make rude comments about their inexperience? We were all young and inexperienced at some point. And, hopefully, we all get to experience the wisdom that comes with getting older.

Then there’s the list of dont’s. Don’t do this. Don’t say that. Don’t be this. Goodness! By the time we get through all of the list of things we shouldn’t be, it is lost on us whether or not we, in fact, would be compatible! So, we often just figure we’re not, and move on. Plus, we really aren’t interested in playing detective, piecing all the clues together, to figure it out. Lol.

And don’t even get us started on the word, “block.” We could write an entire blog post on this word alone! Oh, how we dislike seeing that in a profile. We understand that there are perfectly acceptable times and reas to block people from contacting you on here. There are some really rude people who get very bold, and very nasty, through the anonymity of the internet. It’s a shame, and we don’t wish it on anyone. But, why sound so threatening in your profile introduction, when you could be enticing the right kind of people to reach out to you?

Our favorite (note the sarcasm) “block” statement reads something similar to the following: “If it is clear you haven’t read my entire profile and you contact me, you will be BLOCKED.” Let’s examine this statement a little more, shall we? So the message is meant to warn people who have not “read” the profile, that by not reading the profile, they will be blocked. Weeeeee ... really don’t think your message is going to reach your target audience. Haha!

We liken the whole thing to a piece of candy that looks so yummy on the outside, but when you take a bite to explore a little deeper, you discover that it is actually sour on the inside. We are attracted to those sweet-tasting candies, that are so delicious we just have to finish them (her). There’s a nice metaphor for you, today.

So, we’re not writing to tell people how they should behave, or what they should do. Be yourself. That’s the most important thing ... that you are the authentic version of you. The only thing we can convey is how a negative profile makes us react versus a friendly, positive one. We are drawn to friendly people. Even if there is there is no sexual connection, we absolutely adore and appreciate friendly people!

Looking forward to connecting with some more of you friendly ladies out there! And best of luck to all of you!
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Our last year?
Posted:Jan 5, 2019 1:58 pm
Last Updated:Mar 11, 2019 5:41 pm
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Hello Everyone -

When our gold membership expired in late December, we really considered leaving the lifestyle. When we got into it a few years back, it was so different than it is now. We were connecting with, meeting, and even having some wonderful (and some not-so-wonderful) experiences with real and intriguing women. The journey, while admittedly challenging at times, was fun and interesting. We love getting to know women, what drives them, as well as learning about their passions and intimate desires. However, in the past couple of years, finding real connections has become increasingly difficult, and we’ve only experienced being stood up by the women we’ve agreed to meet.

Now, we understand that, by only being interested in women, we’ve limited our options substantially. And, to be honest, that’s okay with us. Giving pleasure to, and receiving pleasure from, another woman is what we enjoy. That being said, it is rather difficult to find women who are open to exploring their sexuality with a couple, especially a couple who is a bit older now. Though, with smiles on our faces, what we can say is, if/when we are able to share our passion and sensuality with another woman, that rarity will make for a very special experience!

The good news is that we are pretty pragmatic about the whole thing. If we are lucky enough to have new experience(s) with a women again in 2019, we will be exceedingly delighted. If we don’t, then we’ll understand that it just wasn’t meant to be, and will look upon our past experiences with very fond memories.

So, we ultimately decided to renew our membership for one more year ... perhaps our last ... and give it another try. We’ll see how it goes, and will continue our same positive and courteous approach to women. We are truly looking forward to connecting with those amazing and sexy women we’ve yet to meet!!

With all that said, we thought we’d start a blog to share some of our thoughts along our 2019 journey. Happy reading ... and best of luck to each and every one of you. We hope you find what you’re looking for!
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