Can a bad person, turn out to be good? Can a person redeem themselves? Maybe, I had a uncle who was a son of a bitch. He was abusive to my aunt, wasn't a good father. On some payday he would gamble his check and lose all his money , and my aunt wouldn't see him for several day. My aunt had to pay all the bills. My aunt must have really loved this man! She had four kids with him, and never filed for divorce. She was his rock when he was down and out, she always took him back when he left, and when he was sick she nursed him back to health. There was one time he admitted that he didn't deserve such a loving woman. Years later she died, and he inherited everything she owned, two cars, a little money and a house, along with the life insurance policy. Family members was upset, and thought he shouldn't have gotten anything. Later in years, my dad died. He was a good man, good father and everyone loved him. He was 6yrs younger than my uncle. I was upset, why would God take a good man and let a horrible man remain alive? I look at life as unfair, I was hurt. But as time passed by, my uncle started to change. He gave up drinking, cussing, and started to go to church once in a while. His child, my cousin moved in with him. He tried to reach out to the other children, but my oldest cousin refused to acknowledge him. His health start to deteriorate, so my cousin was there to take care of her dad. At times, I talked to other family members and they said he did 180 degree turned. I couldn't believe it, with in a year he died. Then I thought about it, my dad was a good man, and did all he had to do so god took him, and my uncle was spared and given a chance to redeem himself. It took much longer for my uncle, compared to my dad. So the question is? Can we be redeem? Maybe if we live long enough, we can!
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"Who'se fault is it"?
Posted:May 19, 2019 8:53 am
Last Updated:May 20, 2019 7:14 pm
The other night I was talking to a buddy on the phone, he sell alarm system, and It was getting late. I asked, was he heading home? He said, he going to get a little sex before he heads home, piece of shit! He has a wife at home, she got to be nieve! For he be cheating for years. He said, and box of candy, flowers once in a while and he could do what the fuck he wants to do!

I talked to her on the phone a few months back, she said, he haven't changed in over 20 years. He know she threating him but she not going anywhere, so he cover his tracks. I asked him, why not get a divorced? Let her find someone better. But he feels like he's doing his part with bills, and he said, she not the lovely- dovey type, he figured he can do what he wants!

People like Leopards, they don't change their stripes! I wish one day she'll be like Popeyes, and say, "There so much I can stand, I can't stands no more"! Popeyes say this before he whips Bluto's ass! There's another buddy, a piece of shit too! He was living rent free with girlfriend after getting out of the military. While she was at work, he decided to have a woman at their apartment.

Unfortunate, her and her sister come by for lunch, and they caught him eating the girl's pie! She threw them both out and told him to get his stuff! He eventually got his own apartment. 6 months later, he called me, and ask can I still be the best man at the wedding. I said, What? She still wants to marry you? He said yeah. So they got married on a Saturday, on Sunday he disappear for a few days.

I know for sure Tuesday, he cheated. Over the years, he once in a while didn't come home, now she pregnant with his baby. One day, she came to my apartment and said, Jack is no good! He cheats and not a good husband, everything happened is Jack's fault! I told her "Wrong'! It's you fault! "Why would you marry him? He cheated as your boyfriend, why wouldn't he cheat as a husband?????

"Star Trek humor"
Posted:May 18, 2019 12:41 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2019 7:13 pm
The weekend is here, and there are so many humorous blogs out there. So all you Sci-fi fan, I have some humor for you!

"The good side"!
Posted:May 18, 2019 7:01 am
Last Updated:May 19, 2019 1:34 pm
Years ago, my uncle had his own photography studio. He had quite of few black and white photos on the wall. You can only see one side of someone's face, you might see a shadow, or they just might turn their face to one side. I ask why about the pictures. "Why only take a picture of one half of someone's face? He said, I try to captive "Their good side"! I said, "What?

He said, they might have a mole or a scar, but when they come to me, I focus on "The good side"! My uncle had something. I remember reading a Batman comic, when a District Attorney, a man named Harvey Dent, got acid thrown on half of his face, and lost his mind and became , "Two face'. He would have two different suit together to form one suit. He went from honest man to deranged lunatic! A psychopathic killer!

He had a two headed coin, with one side had a X, and your fate depended on the coin flip. Whether you live or die. Sometimes they good tried to comes out, but the bad is so powerful, and it takes over. Half of his face is gruesome! No more Harvey Dent, but now "Two face", total opposite of what Harvey Dent represented. I think the idea of Harvey Dent came from. "Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde".

A man with two faces, and good and bad! Dr. Jekyll was a very kind man, he created a potion that allow him to express himself without feeling guilty. Dr. Jekyll was a very passive man. Again Good vs Evil, seem like Evil always prevails! Jekyll went from a nice guy to a total Dick! But years ago, what my uncle said that day. This was over 40 years ago.

"The good side"! I had my share on anger issues, and I got a strong message from then 3 words. We all have our Demons, there might be a Jekyll and Hyde, and Harvey Dent in most of us. But they both in the same temple, and we decides which one we going to show to the public! By having that power, always show "The good side"! if you do, the world would be a better place!

"Something different".
Posted:May 15, 2019 7:43 pm
Last Updated:May 17, 2019 4:53 pm
Today, I decided to write about something different. There are times when I write about certain topic, but today it's going to be different. Should I write about this or write about that? Or maybe a little about something or a lot about nothing, My mind's in a cloud and I don't have a clue! Not having any clues, I won't be able to solve any crimes!

Should I write about the job? Did that, that's a done deal. Or maybe my day? There was times when my day was part of the script. I could go and talk about being in the darkness, and seeing myself through the light. Tonight, that not part of the script either. How's about "Rain", this is a good subject to talk about..

Sad song have been written about rain, they make a movie with Gene Kelly singing in the rain. I sleep good when it rain, and a rainbow is an awesome thing! Now Sunshine, this is a pleasant thing. It can created song or poems about the summer. Summer is great! But! It suck when the Snakes comes out and you got to deal with the flies.

So write about summer, not sure? Where do I start? What else could I write about? My goal was to write about something different, Eureka! I just did. Something different! A lot of jibberish about a few things, but really no meaning, if you do this in your writings, than believe it or not, you wrote something different.

"A little humor"
Posted:May 12, 2019 3:08 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2019 5:31 pm
Wow, the weekend would soon be over, and we have to start the work week. So why not a little humor to ease up to what lie ahead.

"Famous TV Moms"
Posted:May 12, 2019 6:23 am
Last Updated:May 18, 2019 5:35 am
I know growing up, my mom was an no-nonsense type of woman. She didn't mind whipping some ass! Growing up I felt like she was much harder on me my older brother. We go into a fight and we both was granted, cool! We both suppose serve two weeks in our room. So after 3 days he was paroled, and I had to serve my time.

I was pissed! I wrote some horrible things about her, then I destroyed or ate the paper, because she was very nosy! I was about 9 or this time. So every day I wrote about something, so after 5 days, I learn to love to write, I started to enjoy writing. I still thought it was unfair she was easy on my brother.

But as time progressed, I was asked, when I did first had the love to write. I said, Hmmm. Then I said, WOW! When I was a child I was grounded and spent time in my room, this was my origin on my writing. Who would had thought? So over the years, I decided to stop the anger toward my mom. For something good happened!

I decided to be a good . The last years in her life all was forgotten, no one knew what I felt, I kept it with . For she gave the greatest gift any person could give another! Not the ability to write, but she gave life! She gone, but today, I would share some TV Mom's with you. To all you mothers, "Happy Mother's day"!

1. Clair Huxtable- The Cosby Show
2. Carol Brady- The Brady Bunch
3. Samantha Stevens- Bewitched
4. Margret Anderson- Father Knows best
5. Evelyn Harper- Two and a half men
6.Marie Barone- Everybody Loves Raymond
7. Peg Bundy- Married with children
8.Ellen Griswold- National's Lampoon 's Vacation
9.June Cleaver- Leave it to Beaver
. MA- Every which way but lose.

" Big booties"!
Posted:May 10, 2019 4:54 am
Last Updated:May 11, 2019 6:09 am
I'm a black man and we love big booties! A woman with a big butt, get me excited. I mess around with a girl with a huge ass, after we had sex, and when she wanted to go around for round two. I just asked her to walk around the room, and I'll get a boner and ready to go again!

I know there are so much more to a woman. I also love a pretty face, intelligences, someone I can have a conversation with, and curves. As I mentioned many times in the past, when God made woman, he gave man a hell of a gift! I have some good ones in my life and ,many more not as good!

But I do cherish the good I had with everyone I had. We might not get the whole package, maybe they won't get it with me either. But her have that big firm ass, for that time we having sex, "I'm loving every minute of it! Some men are boobs men, I rather her have that ass!

Sir-mix a lot, did the song "Baby got baby! He was talking about the sisters! In the song he said, "Even the white boys got to shout"! I been lucky, I knew some white girls, Spanish girls, Indian, Asian, with big asses too! Big booties woman comes in all flavors! I'm like Capt. Kirk of Star Trek, I love all women! So today is national "Booty day". whether you have a big Booty or small, today we give a shout for your booty!

"Happy Hump day"!
Posted:May 8, 2019 4:23 am
Last Updated:May 8, 2019 5:55 pm
Today is a good day to get with someone special and do some humping! We all adults and love sex, hell Dogs do it all the times. So for all you humper out there, here's some adult humor to get you day started. "Happy Hump Day"!

"Who wants to be a millionare"?
Posted:May 6, 2019 9:50 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2019 11:53 am
These are just some advice to doing better financially , we might not get rich, but we can make some better choices. I would be happy just financially secure, and don't have to worry about money.

If you not happy where you are in life, look for other opportunities!

A Wiseman told , "Why stay with a company over 30 years? He said, once he was eligible to retire he did! Went to another company and got another retirement. He said, now I'm debt free and if I wake up and feel like going to Europe, I CAN!

Posted:May 5, 2019 8:55 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2019 6:16 pm
There was a man who lost tons of money on get rich schemes. He would see and ad in the paper or watch late night commercials. Over the years, he lost over $100,000. There was a question asked upon him. The question was, "If the people who sell the product , advice, or whatever they are selling, if they already rich, why would they care about making you rich?

"A Wiseman get wiser, if he listens"!

"Every choice or decision we make, we must weight the pros and cons, before we might that choice"!

I'm not wise, but I hope each day I get better. May be I'll create a beer? It work for Bud!
That's when Bud, became "Budweiser"!

" The 20 year plan"!
Posted:May 4, 2019 10:37 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2019 1:22 pm
10 to 12 years ago. I seen a friend's wife, at work. I known this friend over 30 years ago, when we both was in the Air Force. She was in a different area from me and she was back with the company. I asked her. "How's DJ? DJ was my friend in the military. She said, her and DJ got a divorce. I was shocked, and said, "What happened?, she told me."DJ wasn't worth a shit! He did what he wanted to do. He cheated! She said, she talked to a lawyer.

The Lawyer asked her, "How long you two been married'? She told him less that 5 years. The Lawyer told her, if you get divorce now, you might not get much, because He's probably going to get joint custody on your child, so if you stay 15 more years, when he do retire, you going to get 1/2 of his retirement. So they Lawyer told her, she should stay on "The 20 year plan"!

So she decided too. She didn't argue , fuss or fight, just look the other way. So after a while DJ did a 180 degree turn. He was a good father, husband. She said, he thanked her for still being with him. He said he's sorry a million times! She said, she think he was sincere, and DJ came correct! But the damage was done! She was able to go back to school and get her masters.

So when DJ finally retired, she wanted to come back to New Mexico, DJ was from New York. She was once an intern at the company years ago, and now coming back full time. So after 6 months or so of DJ being retired, she file for divorce. Of course, she got 1/2, now she back working making 6 figures, with a chance to get another retirement. Within a year, she re-married.

I seen DJ, he said, he felt used! He said,, Why didn't she divorced him earlier? Poor dude, he had a brain tumor, and his health is falling apart. I know 8 years ago was trying to get disability. I know Karma is a bitch! Who was more wrong? DJ being a bad husband the first 5 years. Or Carol, getting on "The 20 year plan"!

"The best compliment that someone can give me. Is?
Posted:May 2, 2019 5:50 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2019 1:02 pm
50 plus, and I think I know myself now. About time! When I take a test in a , usually the last person to get my test done. There might be another person left, but 100 of 100 times, I'm the last one to turn in my test. I usually get my 80% to pass, but when kicking ass, I might score a 85%. I admit, there are times I lack common sense. Einstein didn't have common sense either, but he was a Genius! That's not me.

I also know in my life, I slept with two different dimes! And, not talking about pocket change! not the most handsomest man alive. Another thing I know about me, I been told lots of times, That I'm nice and a good man, but no chemistry. This is from a few women I knew. Nice! This is a compliment. Or when I'm with my daughter, grand children and son in law. We can be watching Family feud or Jeopardy. If I get an answer right.

Someone might say "Drew, you are smart! This is also a compliment. Smart, is nice to hear. Or back when I was a teenager. when my parents was alive. I used to cut the grass. My Mom and Dad would say, "Scoupe, you did a good job"! They liked calling me Scoupe for some reason. Maybe they forgot my name? But, If it make them happy, I'll go along with it. Good Job! was nice compliment, and I appreciated it!

But! "The best compliment someone can give me". Is? Drum roll please! Again! "The best compliment someone can give me. Is, someone say " Drew, he's a funny Motherfucker"! "Funny Motherfucker"! When people said about , This is the best compliment I ever gotten!!!!!!

"A picture might say a thousand words".
Posted:Apr 30, 2019 10:11 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2019 12:35 pm
When two people look the same picture, they might see different things. But If you have a funny picture, likely they might get the same message! So, why not have some funny pictures?


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