Everyone has their own reas for joining this site. In my case it was the death of my wife. OVERNIGHT, I went from having a happy marriage and fantastic sex life to sleeping ALONE in a cold empty bed. SUDDENLY there was no more romance, intimacy, or sex, nor companion to do anything ELSE with. Just day after day & night after night of nothing but unending loneliness. While I would LOVE having a LTR again, they take time to develop. Until then, this DRAMA, DRUG, & DISEASE free man seeks women who are tired of a life with no human warm, touch, or intimacy. While I DO prefer women who like to meet often, I DON'T want multiple partners. You need not perform like a porn star; just be REAL and SERIOUS about meeting. PLAYDATES are not CONTESTS, so nobody is keeping score. I'm caring but not clingy, and won't pressure you into activities you're not comfortable with. SINCE I'M A MAN THAT ACTUALLY MEETS, if you haven't had very much luck so far, this is your chance to change it. My PRIMARY concern is making you happy, even if all you want is a man to hold onto while sleeping. I DON'T HAVE A 'TYPE' so don't worry about your age, those "few extra pounds", or be ashamed of parts your body. No BODY is perfect, least of all mine.

My Ideal Person She wants a friend and a lover.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, BATHING TOGETHER, SLEEPING TOGETHER

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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