Recently single, separated 2 years after 12 year marriage which was fairly vanilla. Father of 2 with shared custody. I am very devoted to my , they come first in my life. I'm here learning about myself and this lifestyle to see where I fit. I am not a masochist and would describe my interest more along the lines of sensual play, however I am still learning so that could potentially change. Primarily I am interested in finding a dominant woman to share my life with. I thrive when I know what is expected of me from someone who appreciates the effort I put into meeting those expectations. I am very thoughtful and generous with my time and skills, I just need someone to recognize those for what they are and receives them with a smile of thanks. I am on the social side of the Autism spectrum which means I will socialize but suffer from lot of social anxiety. I love outdoor activities like kayaking and ice fishing where I can still socialize without being overwhelmed by crowds but I am willing to venture out with a guide who can help distract me as I work on building my comfort level in groups and repair some of my lost self esteem. Notice I am not looking for someone to fix me, I know it's work I have to do myself, it's just easier with someone supportive by my side.

My Ideal Person maybe someone a little more assertive

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Barenaked Ladies, Linkin Park

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Natalie Dormer, that crooked smile, almond eyes, long
beautiful hair.. soft features

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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