We are interested in playing as a couple only. Not separate, there are lots of people who are willing to do their own thing so if what we are offering is not what you are looking for, no rea to get discouraged as you will most likely find it here :D. There's a TON of people out there who are just winging it. Or still trying to figure it all out. If you are more into your own fantasy of what you think everything should be like than the reality. That's a great way to spoil it for everyone. You have to connect with people as they ARE... if you don't get that, this is not going to be you last disappointment. It's probably not you first either, by a long shot. One thing we’ve learned that seems like a very common mistake.. couples expecting that everything is going to be perfectly equal. It never is. You always have to forge your own connections and hope that your partner forges their own also, on their own terms. I mean, you can totally try to help each other out, but getting upset because your partner is getting something that you aren't.., well, whose problem IS this really??? Haha! Things don't always go as you imagined, and if you can't adjust to the reality fairly quickly, I could imagine it all feeling a little intimidating, remember there are plenty of ways to have fun! It's a lot to handle at once the first time with someone new. Your own feelings, trying to connect with a new per and the fact that you're seeing your partner with someone else. But all of that is irrelevant if you're just expecting someone to just 'be' whatever you want. People don't work that way. We have learned how to see people realistically, and to enjoy the experiences! Find us on S L S

My Ideal Person Men, women, and couples (male/female) who are positive, uninhibited, fun, and discrete. Disease free and possess good personal hygiene. As we will offer the same in return. Interested in people who are fun, upbeat, no drama and discretion is a must. Yeah, it's really hard to find people you really click with. And harder still to find TWO people who you BOTH click with. But if you don't try, your chances go way down. So we always feel like the more you fail, the closer you're getting to succeeding, so if you are a man and are super weirded out about other men (if you are easily intimidated, or like it is easy for you to feel competitive or just weirded out by seeing the other guy) then please don't message us. We are interested in making experiences not participating in some other issue that torpedoes the whole affair.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

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