We are an attractive interracial couple who have been in the lifestyle for several years as both singles and a couple. We are sarcastic, witty, and love to laugh. We have a wide range of interests and listen to all types of music. He is tall, athletic, and sexy. He is skillfully well endowed with 26+ years of lifestyle experience. He can be quiet initially but is easy to talk to and a southern gentleman. He has insane stamina and knows how to please a woman or two if needed. He is also a trained massage therapist in Swedish, Thai, Deep Tissue, and Yoní (look it up) massage techniques. She is the hot blonde American Southern girl with the southern belle accent. She is firey like a redhead but has a heart bigger than Texas. Her sex drive is like a dude, for real. She never gets enough, so we are a perfect fit. She is not interested in connecting with another man at all. Please don’t ask because it will offend her. Not being a full swap couple is her choice and preference, so please respect it. She is bi but enjoys being a cuckquean with no degrading. Make no mistake; she is an alpha female and submissive only to him. She loves women and to see him pleasure one in front of her. She is very selective when joining or playing with women. We are mainly seeking friends and fun times with people in the lifestyle. We have fun together wherever we go and expect people and adventures to add to our experiences. We enjoy clubs and other erotic places, especially when we are traveling. We are in the New Orleans area for now but travel all over, so our location may change at different times. We are ok with just hanging out with another couple, and play is not expected or required. We like to watch and be watched by couples and females and have a fantastic sex life together. We are seeking the elusive unicorn, just like most couples. As stated above, the idea of watching another female take some BBC excites her. We are also interested in pairing with hotwife or cuckold couples as well. We enjoy hanging out with couples in general and making lifestyle friends. We are into couples who allow the wife to play separately or where he wants to watch. Just for clarity, she has no desire to be with another man, which will not change. Her kink is watching him pleasure another woman.

My Ideal Person We have over 25 years in the lifestyle, and we have determined there are four steps to a successful match.

1. Know your kink. We like to have FMF threesomes. We enjoy hot-wife couples. We want cuckold couples. We like Queen of Spades wives. We like single females that like BBC and don’t mind being watched. We like couples where the husband enjoys watching a BBC pleasure his wife. Michelle likes watching Jay pleasure a woman. If you aren’t into these kinks, we aren’t a match sexually. We can still be friends.

2. Be honest. Have some recent pictures of yourself and be ready to share them. Don’t show us old pictures that don’t represent who you are in the present. Be prepared to video chat with us to show you are real. Please don’t ask for x-rated pictures or videos of us because we won’t share them, and we don’t need yours. (If you want to share, that’s fine too; we like it)

3. Communicate. If you are interested, show some effort by messaging and being attentive. No one likes feeling ignored or unimportant. It gives off the vibe that you are talking to multiple people and are desperate to find “anyone” that will meet you. It can also project that you are constantly seeking the next best thing. No one wants to be ghosted because you found someone you like better. So communicate. Say you aren’t interested or that you are entertaining multiple people. Remember, a little respect goes a long way in the lifestyle. Also, know your boundaries! Talk to your partner ahead of time and understand what is okay and not okay. Nothing ruins an experience more than for you and your partner to get into a fight because you didn’t discuss your boundaries before the clothes started coming off.

4. Show up. When you make a date, be there and don’t have any expectations of play or connection. Just because we meet you doesn’t mean we will want to play with you. Sometimes we meet people and decide they aren’t what we desire sexually but are fantastic people with whom to hang out. We also meet people, and the sparks fly immediately. Initial meets can be vanilla or erotic. We can meet at a bar, dinner, a sex club, or something more intimate work as long as we all agree. We could all walk down Bourbon St. or go to a sporting event. Either way, show up and be yourself.

If we can cultivate these four aspects, our chances for a successful connection go up tremendously. We prefer to make good friends and have a long-term partner than to have random experiences with high attraction but very little connection and chemistry. We are all about being safe, comfortable, and consistent with what we do. If you are interested, send us a message or like us. Even if you send a simple “Hello,” we will know you are interested, and we will respond with no judgment. We know some people are shy or don’t know what to say. It’s not always easy to make a connection. It's even harder when you are attracted to someone and want to make a good impression. So, hit us up, and let's see what happens!

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