We are a happily married couple. My wife finds women highly attractive and we both have agreed to attempt a casual relationship with another female. During the first phase, we will meet and have drinks with potential partners to see if we are all comfortable with each other. During the second phase, we will all have dinner and talk about what will happen next. We would like to keep the pressure very low and if more time is needed, we will discuss and plan for future meetings.

My Ideal Person We are looking for someone that is STD free, intelligent and open minded. We would prefer that our encounters be casual and would like to avoid drama. We do not mind marijuana users and will most likely reject users of other substances.

Prophylaxis is a must. Involvement of both of us will vary from watching to penetration depending on comfort levels.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Stone Temple Pilots, ICP, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Tool

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
HIM: Watching as my wife gets another woman off. HER:

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
HIM: Wrestling, HER: Role Playing

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
HIM and HER: Jessica Alba... Eyes, hair, smile and body.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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