I've just moved into town and don't really know anybody here right now. Living in temporary quarters for the summer, trying to buy a house, and maybe a job while I'm at it. I'm going back to school next year at NCSU. I'm pretty laid back for the most part and get along with everybody, though I'm not really into the bar/club scene as I don't hear well (worked around airplanes too long). I'm in good shape and prefer partners who are as well. I'm not very experienced and enjoy letting you lead; I'm willing to try probably most anything once, but not all at once. I do have performance anxiety at times, but if that happens it just means you get all my attention, and I want to give my partners everything I can.

My Ideal Person I like a lover who is patient, gentle, and kind, but not afraid to direct and/or control me. You are clean, ddf, in shape, and enjoy receiving oral (bonus points if you wax). You are the sort of the person who understands that if performance anxiety takes over as it sometimes will I can still give you everything you need.

I'm not really looking for anything long-term at this point; the last few and next few months have been and will be full of upheaval and change and I'm not able to commit mentally to a ltr at this point, so you shouldn't ask. I'm just looking to have a good time, no strings attached, make a few friends (maybe fwb). Nothing complicated.

But if something else develops, I'm open to that. If you want to try for that, you should be committed to keeping fit and healthy but not let it control your life; you should enjoy creative pursuits like writing or art; you should be able to have long conversations about anything without getting offended; you should prefer reading to watching tv; you should want to spend more time outside than in. You should be smart and have a good sense of humor; if you get the joke behind my username that's a good start (not that it's a great joke). You should like wine and/or craft beer, and good food. You should be patient when I geek out about plants and farming (and I'll let you be geeky about whatever you want, too). You must not be money motivated or want a man to shower you with gifts and riches. You should recognize that the best things in life come from spending time with people you love, not from things you own. And if you had green eyes or red hair that wouldn't hurt...