am naturally dominant and fun loving. I am here because this can be a place to explore those dark and exciting places in our minds. Life is too short to wait for happiness or to take life's challenges so seriously. Be friendly to me and I will return friendliness. I am laid back, easy going, have a high libido, and most of all I don't take myself too seriously. I prefer to play in per When it comes to BDSM, I am turned on by any per who is completely submissive to me. Your age, size, or other characteristics are not as important as your total submission. I enjoy the mental aspects of play more than the physical, but both are important. I like to get to know my play partners fantasies and their fears and incorporate both into our play. I know many like to say it is not just about sex, and that is true. For me though sexual energy is an important part of BDSM play. In my spare time, I am a big NFL fan, I love to play poker, and enjoy anything paranormal. I work normal hours and I do massage therapy on the side. I love to chat with anyone and find out what turns them on and gets them off. Nothing shocks me and I am completely nonjudgmental. I amlooking for a LTR on here, with the option for friends and playmates. I am willing in most cases to talk with anyone and explore some things, but I find the online thing fizzles out pretty quickly, there is only so much that can be done online and then it gets kind of boring. In terms of fetish's I am open to most things, but in particular I have a lot of experience and am into spanking, panties, and sexual domination. I have enjoyed being a Daddy to adult baby girls. I have a lot of experience and am considered an expert at cunnilingus. I can bring most women to climax with my tongue over and over again until she begs me to stop ;-) I don't mind spending as much time as it takes to get there.