[U][B]PREFACE[/B][/U] My Status and profile pictures make clear my interests. If you are serious about D/s activity, fascinated, keen to learn - even open to some depravity, send me a Private Message. However, if you are only a player, a PT, or a guy on his own, do not bother. I am 100% genuine, and seeking just one sub (your age not really too crucial) for training, fun, and more. Could that sub be you, I wonder? Working hypothesis is: minimal risk and total trust; firm and fair leadership, positive encouragement; and no coercion. Does that appeal? [U][B]MY INTRODUCTION - AND ABOUT ME (For Your Information)[/U] My life passions and interests: classical music, good food, creative cuisine, fine wine, sex and perversions! (does that interest you?). [/B] [COLOR deeppink]GROUND RULES[/B]* FACT: Fake profiles abound here. About 85% of the so-called members here are frauds or players - PTs; and of the remaining 15% only a small proportion are interested in carrying through, even if they decide in the end to abandon things - which is entirely their prerogative, of course. So, ask yourself: are you in that small remaining percentage? If you are, do get in touch and this Dom will welcome your contact. In essence, "What is the point in wasting time and emotion?" Does that make sense?[/COLOR] [SIZE 4]NOTE CAREFULLY: I AM NOT INTERESTED IN FRAUDS, PRETENDERS, WANNABES, OR MEN PLAYING SOLO.[/SIZE][/B] I am a former SchoolMaster, and therefore well-qualified and experienced to [B]teach[/B] and [B]Instruct[/B], able to offer a bespoke course of "special and further education" tailored to your experience, needs, desires and aspirations. I claim to be a natural Dom in the belief that a [B]Dom leads and does not push[/B], and always respects a sub. It is a fundamental precept that [B]submission is a gift from her to Him[/B], and cannot - [U]should not ever [/U]- be demanded. It does not work like that. When necessary I can be assertive, but never be aggressive. Devious? - sometimes! [B]BUT IF THERE IS ANYTHING YOU WOULD NOT WANT TO TRY, THEN SAY SO, AND WE WILL AGREE. The same principle applies to stuff that you definitely want to consider - obviously.[/B] [U]You would do well to take time in reading the whole of this My Profile[/U], which is specially designed to help you. [B]My major interest [/B] is in any submissive girl who wishes to learn. ("Girl", in this context, is a generic term to include the older lady.) She will be keen to demonstrate a willing attitude, to convince of her compliance, and therefore become very turned on by even the mere thought of pleasing her Dom. And probably no larger than dress size 16, though there could be exceptions. Now to basics. Obedience to reasonable and practical Instructions is an imperative, not an option. Disobedience or truculence can obviously result in Punishments, including those of a so-called Traditional Nature. (In that respect, you might like to enquire if I possess any, or all, of the following - ruler, gym slipper, whip, leather belt, cane.) Your innermost dark thoughts will be laid bare, even if that embarrasses or humiliates you. There will be a big element of fun; but also that heady mixture of curiosity and apprehension, wondering what might happen next. So your mind will be involved as much as your body. Wondering …? --->> Do you ask why am I not on ALT, which is specifically BDSM-orientated? Because I seek not just an interest in D/s, but also a measure of friendship. Thus, a pleasant drink, or even lunch or supper, can be mutually beneficial and mentally stimulating. Lunch is - or can be - such a sexy occasion. (Terms and Conditions might apply, of course.) [U]Experience shows that those who will make contact only by e-mails and chatting online are seldom for real.[/U] It is a hard lesson to learn … so again, let us not waste each others' time. [COLOR deeppink]Those who hide in the shadows of the internet are rarely serious and genuine. [B] This Dom believes that, if you are really keen on learning and discovering, then, soon after initial contact, [U]you[/U] will be prepared to exchange mobile numbers, on the strict understanding that we respect each others' privacy. Your mobile number will not disclose where you are; but will be a powerful indicator to us both that you are not just playing around.[/B] If you are interested in what I write here, do contact me. It will not be taken as a firm assurance that you wish to proceed. The pictures are mainly from the "internet library" though illustrative of real possibilities. [B]Two pictures are genuinely me. The first is the SchoolMaster look. The next one is also me, enjoying a glass of wine outdoors.[/B] Note the title of one of those pictures, which (my addy) might assist you alternatively in making contact. I cannot access the new and so-called improved IM, and I have lodged an official complaint. If you are serious in this adventure, I will readily send other pictures - though no cock shots or dick pics. [COLOR blue]I have a few unfulfilled sexual experiences which you might care to explore - depending on your sense of adventure and sexual status. In summary ... (1) watching girl-on-girl action in real time (2) seeing a girl wearing a strap-on employing it, effectively, on a F or a M (3) a black guy using a white girl, he enjoying her, and she relishing the experience (4) experimenting with other species - eg "taking the knott". The telling phrase "ANY COCK" is sometimes employed by Members here to great and subtle effect. Enough said?[/COLOR] Thanks for your time and interest in reading through My Profile. All best Brian (though some may wish to address me as Sir) /:>

My Ideal Person (1) A submissive girl, probably 20 to 55 (though no one under 18 - some do manage to join here, as we know). The upper number of 55 is a guideline only - and if you are an older woman, I shall still love to refer to you as a "girl" - though in no way a pejorative description. The applicant will realise that, for some Doms, small tits are just as sexy (perhaps even more so) as more developed and outstanding, or pendulous, breasts - especially when nipples become very sensitive, hard and prominent.

Of course, seeing a girl's breasts hanging and swaying when she is fucked doggy-fashion is always exciting … and she should not be wearing a bra, nor allowed to hold her breasts still with her hands, as they would be on the bed supporting her. Maybe she will be positioned so that her nipples sensuously rub against the bedclothes. Being aware that her tits are moving rhythmically and in sympathy is part of being used, and should be an essential factor for her ... knowing that it pleases the "fucker" who is penetrating her, and whom she will make cum inside her hopefully (spunk should never be wasted); and knowing also that the movement of her tits is exciting for any onlookers, whether actually present or viewing a videoclip. If it makes her feel dirty, and cheap, so much the better, for it degrades her. And it might indeed make her cum more effectively.

You may be a girl who at present is just keen to explore the possibility of being a true sub, and learning about the various associated activities and duties. Note that you do not need to have experience, as you will be given full training (as we might say)!

Usual activities include behaving and acting in an appropriate manner for a sub; expecting to Dress to Order; receiving Instruction from an expert mentor who offers tailor-made courses of special Further Education and Training (as already mentioned); and then on to being gradually "corrupted" in mind and body.

In addition to the foregoing, courses may offer more advanced activities and techniques. The imaginative menu includes guidance and practical advice on such aspects as shyness, blushing (exploitation of), prescribed vocabulary ("penis" and "vagina" are medical terms only, and inappropriate here; "willy" and "pussy" mere euphemisms) ; imposed self-control, denied orgasm (edge-play, so-called), enforced and repeated orgasm, use of toys (including a speculum); and ordinary "innocent" household items [for instance, the humble electric toothbrush can be so teasing and stimulating ... mine offers 48000 vibrations per minute ... 800 per second ... think how that would feel on your nipples or clit, especially if you were secured to the four corners of the bed (helpless to do anything but enjoy); a hen's egg pushed into your cunt, which you then must expel without breaking it; a pigeon's feather - so effective; and elastic bands of different sizes and elasticity]; perfecting your "hands-free" BJ skills, even when a remote-control bullet-vibrator is inside your cunt; exhibitionism, electro-sexual stimulation, nipple jewellery and/or piercing, waxing (home or salon-professional), bareback fucking (skin-on-skin, though very selectively - and see earlier comment), possible pregnancy risk, anal fucking and anal training (on a gradual and progressive basis); the pain and pleasures of "figging", a hot topic indeed (if you do not know what that is, ask me); DP (which everyone should try at least once); and even the arranging of gangbangs with carefully selected and experienced gentlemen participants. Be assured that bareback fucking and pregnancy risk are not obligatory, but open to negotiation - it will be your choice. You and I will agree which of the above activities are most appropriate for your wants and needs and darkest desires, to swiftly achieve the greatest and most beneficial effect.

Items from the above list can be selected at will - it is rather like a Chinese takeaway menu! There is no insistence that you will choose everything, of course. and the selection might depend on the length and intensity of your personal education.

For an inexperienced young girl who needs to improve her oral skills, a special course of instruction is offered - with merits and rewards as real progress is achieved. That is, "incentive training".

Additional possibilities can be discussed for specific inclusion, but everything predicated on mutual agreement, respect, and desire. And discretion, obviously.

A fascination can present with a MILF, especially if she feels she is a little shy ... and that is not a contradiction of terms. A yummy mummy, indeed. Some might say SLUTTY, but that adjective has attached a very precise definition.

A SLUT is quite different from a tart, a slag, a baggage, or a wanton trollop (the tautology is deliberate). Observe that SLUT is an anagram of LUST - and that should speak volumes.

(2) Further, and very usefully, a submissive couple can excitingly be considered for engagement - either both parties submissive, or a couple where he initially "thinks" he is a dom; for he may find that he discovers otherwise. Becoming a cuckold could well be a result, even controlled by his submissive and well-fucked partner?

Any questions? Do feel free to ask me.

Two final points to note.

First, becoming a Friend is useful, but I keep my Friends list short, and frequently revise it, removing members who no longer show interest.

In the absence of effective IM, Private Messages are useful, though cumbersome, but should lead to texting and speaking on the 'phone, and eventually meeting up face-to-face ... which is the objective for which we should strive - if you are serious.